[anonymous]

[darwinism]

I'm feeling much better today. But what if you don't know if [hesitation] a friend will be able to pull through? What if it was your faul

I could use some advice right now.

Comments

[himetsuru.livejournal.com]

My nurse told me this morning to remember the feeling of being in control. Of being myself. As much as we want our friends to get better, too, it is them that needs to find that feeling. The best we can do is talk to them about how we feel and the things we realize were not reality. You might lose them as friends, but if it helps in the end, maybe one day they'll be your friend again.

I'm sorry. I don't think that ended up making any sense.

[anonymous]

[darwinism]

No, it helps. Maybe I should talk to them before they get any worse than they already are.

Thanks.

[madeinthehrl]

In times like these, I think the most important thing to do is just be there for them. Even if it doesn't seem like they'll get better, there's always hope. :)

[anonymous]

[darwinism]

I'm not sure if being around this guy is going to help much, though. I'm [hesitation] not a very good catalyst, I guess.

Re: [anonymous]

[madeinthehrl]

I guess it might not be the best idea to be around them all the time. But sooner or later, I think they'll need your help, and that's when you can show them you care. You need to have a little faith in yourself.

[anonymous]

[darwinism]

Kind of hard to do that right now, but thanks. At least I know I won't be leaving anytime soon, so... I'll have plenty of time to try to make things up to people. So long as I stay san

[moral-liberty.livejournal.com]

You can never know. But if they have the desire, they will try, and that is the only hope of improvement. The impact of outside influences pales when compared to the importance of one's own will.

You must accept that.

[anonymous]

[darwinism]

Yeah, they're stubborn all right. Kind of annoying, actuall But also easily manipulated. And then [hesitation] stubborn about staying manipulated.

Probably not making much sense, sorry.