*written in carefully disguised handwriting*

[coolegoist.livejournal.com]

I am writing to you all on behalf of an anonymous individual. This individual (who shall henceforth be known as "Mr. X") has recently found that he lacks certain knowledge which could prove vital in the near future. Thus, he wishes to take advantage of everyone's wisdom regarding the romancing of men.

More specifically, Mr. X would like to know more about what he should do if, for whatever reason, he and his gentleman friend end up having to bed each other. I think it's safe to say that both are somewhat inexperienced, so it would be helpful to provide as much detail as possible regarding the physical mechanics—as is acceptable by the bulletin's standards, of course! (Also, it wouldn't do to neglect the emotional aspect either. I assure you that Mr. X is a true romantic at heart.)

Any advice would be greatly appreciated by my acquaintance. Thank you in advance! :)

Comments

Re: [Anonymous]

[norainu]

That's the thing, though. There's a big difference between wanting to get the hell out of here and having a driving, overriding duty to act upon.

Mere desire can be overridden by other desires.

And when you're young, well, some things tend to take priority even if it makes us old farts want to tear our hair out.

So I think the real question is how to instill either sense of duty or at least a sense of urgency that's greater than someone's need to get down with someone they have some kind of thing for. I don't know if that's actually possible, since duty must be accepted, not imposed.