ext_190275 ([identity profile] rectifies.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] damned_bulletin2009-02-16 11:57 pm
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To those in a "relationship":

A friend and I have had some questions about sex, but since no one wants to give us a straight answer, we thought it might be easier just to watch. Would anyone be willing to have a couple of patients observe them as they have sex? We promise to be quiet while we watch. (Someone who would let us ask questions later would be perfect.)

This might seem like a strange request, but we've kind of exhausted our resources on this. Please leave your name if you are interested. Any help would be appreciated.

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Or if it would be better, we could just look at porn pictures instead. We don't want anyone to be upset or mad.

[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
The first person has a point, it really depends on what kind of combo you wanna see. And if the couple is okay with that, 'cause it's really not everyone's thing.

Though if you wanna ask me your questions, I'll have a shot at answering them!

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[identity profile] bewarethecute.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
And not just a guy and a girl. We need to know all of it, just to be sure.

And also, should sex be given to someone special? Because someone said it should be, but someone else said it shouldn't be.

[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 07:41 am (UTC)(link)
Some people like to keep it for someone special, but others don't. It's really up to you. Either way, it's not legal until you're over 18, so if you're younger than that, you've got time to think about it.

[identity profile] bewarethecute.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 08:30 am (UTC)(link)
But Superboy says he's only 2 or 16, and he talks like he's had sex a lot. And orgies.

I don't really want to have sex though. Or give it. I just want to help my friend, and I got confused.

[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 10:45 am (UTC)(link)
...what? If he's 2, he shouldn't really be talking at all (literally), and if he's 16... I think some countries allow it if you're 16, but really, 18 is better I think. You're more likely to have an idea of what you're getting into.

Hey, asking questions is totally okay. It's only if you were thinking of doing it that I'd have a problem with.

[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 07:40 am (UTC)(link)
That's a little general. Are you talking male and female?

And if you don't mind me asking, how old are you and when were you thinking of having sex?

[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
Well I dunno why everyone's getting worked up about you just asking. I mean, it's better to know about this stuff then having to figure it all out on your own later. Not to mention it's worth learning about for your own safety too.

Okay, so you know about those parts of your body, right? How boys have a penis and girls have a vagina?
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[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 08:09 am (UTC)(link)
It's not really as complicated as you think. A lot of it comes down to knowing how to make the other person (and yourself) enjoy it. That kind of thing varies from person to person though, so it's not something you can learn so much. Really the best thing to do is to talk about it with your partner. When you get one that is. And when you're both old enough.

But I don't see why someone couldn't explain the basics to you. I mean, you do know that you can't do any of this until you're at least 18, right?

[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 10:47 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, but like I said, the basics tend to be pretty similar. Plus they do have books about this kind of stuff and teach it in schools, so I don't get why everyone's freaking out about you asking questions.

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[identity profile] fourtharcana.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 04:02 pm (UTC)(link)
...Someone who knows the person who posted this DID try and explain it. And didn't expect this immediately afterwards.

[identity profile] scarletspeedstr.livejournal.com 2009-02-18 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I mean, if they're resorting to this? Obviously it wasn't explained that well.