[Anonymous, but doesn't think to disguise handwriting that thoroughly; strikeouts almost legible]

[revolutionise]

Hey, I know this is kind of a vague question, but what do you do if a close friend a family member a friend does something really bad that you never thought they would do? Or something that seems bad but you're not entirely sure is bad?

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[razmaspaz.livejournal.com]

That happened to me, kinda. It was someone that I looked up to, and he, well, did something he really shouldn't have. But once I got to [pen tap] know him, I realized that he wasn't really evil, he just had some psychological issues involving his dad. I talked to him about it, and soon enough he was able to conquer his personal demons with my help.

So my advice? Confront him about it. Most people don't do bad things without a reason, you know?

[revolutionise]

Well, they did seem to have a reason. They said pretty much what it was. I just don't know if I believe it's the real one or not, you know? Seemed to make sense at the time, but it doesn't feel right looking back. There's definitely been stuff that's been hard for the person to deal with, though. So you're right, there's probably something I'm missing.

As I said to the others, I'm going to try to stay clear-headed until next visitor's day. Then I'll be able to really talk to them about it. Probably for the best, anyway; the longer I stay sane, the sooner I'll be able to get out of here and see my friends again.

[razmaspaz.livejournal.com]

If it didn't feel right, then it probably wasn't right. Sometimes you just gotta trust your feelings.

I wish I could help you more on this, but I kinda need to know more about the situation. I think I'm pretty good at helping people dealing with their issues, so if you want we can chat later about it.

[a second note has been posted below; clearly an afterthought]

But it's okay if you don't want to talk about it, though, I understand!

[revolutionise]

I'd rather not give too many details, if that's okay. If I do feel like sharing at some point in the future, though, I'll let you know. I really appreciate the offer to help.