Utena Tenjou (
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Hey, I know this is kind of a vague question, but what do you do if a close friend a family member a friend does something really bad that you never thought they would do? Or something that seems bad but you're not entirely sure is bad?
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OOhI guess there's no good way to answer that. Again, I'm so sorry to hear things got to that point. I didn't realize that whatever disorder we have could push people that far.
Unfortunately, yours doesn't seem like the kind of bad thing I was talking about. You did it because you snapped, and that's understandable. The person I'm talking about was pretty calm about the whole thing, almost like he'd been planning it (not sure about that, but that's how it felt after a while).
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I'm sorry for what you've been through.
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And thank you. I will try to talk to the person next time they visit, at least. The last visit didn't go so well, but hopefully I'm a little clearer-headed next time.