[Anonymous, but doesn't think to disguise handwriting that thoroughly; strikeouts almost legible]

[revolutionise]

Hey, I know this is kind of a vague question, but what do you do if a close friend a family member a friend does something really bad that you never thought they would do? Or something that seems bad but you're not entirely sure is bad?

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[revolutionise]

Not really either of those. Really, that's just the problem: I don't really know how bad. It's something that everyone else would definitely think is very bad, but [pen has tapped here several times] it's complicated, or at least it feels that way to me.

[haplesstracker.livejournal.com]

You're going to have to be a lot less vague here.

[revolutionise]

I'd really, really rather not say on here if I can help it.

I guess all I can say is that there was some good that came of what they did, but it also caused a lot of hurt and confusion for me.

[haplesstracker.livejournal.com]

Talk to them, see if you think they're going to do it again. If it was for you, like they called the hotline or something, I don't even see why it's a problem.

[revolutionise]

They said it was for both of us, that it would help. The reason they did it is resolved now, but I still get this nagging feeling that they would do it again anyway if they had the chance, just with a different excuse.