Is this Ururu's friend? I was hoping they'd have explained things to you, but it sounds like we didn't do a very good job. Seems like we only confused you guys more. ^^; I see a lot of people have offered to help, but it's probably best if someone you know well explains it. It's a subject that can make people uncomfortable or nervous or even embarrassed sometimes, but if you're still confused, I can try explaining things a little bit better, okay? But posting up on the public board might just makes things even more confusing.