Th That is something very different. It's not common place. In fact, many people would consider that inappropriate because of that. This is supposed to be a private act, and taking away the intimacy of it ruins it and turns it into something vulgar.
In fact, that's why you would get the wrong idea in the first place. Think of it as you would any custom you're not very familiar with. You can watch someone perform the custom, but that doesn't mean you understand what it's truly about, right? That's why it's better to learn about it first before being exposed to it. In any way.
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ThThat is something very different. It's not common place. In fact, many people would consider that inappropriate because of that. This is supposed to be a private act, and taking away the intimacy of it ruins it and turns it into something vulgar.In fact, that's why you would get the wrong idea in the first place. Think of it as you would any custom you're not very familiar with. You can watch someone perform the custom, but that doesn't mean you understand what it's truly about, right? That's why it's better to learn about it first before being exposed to it. In any way.