It's called 'observing the situation before making rash decisions'. You'd probably find you were more effective if you tried it. Waiting a day to see what happens isn't going to cause any damage, but trying to force things could.

So you're saying that the moment someone changes from what you're used to, outside influences or no, you consider them no longer a friend and have no qualms about doing whatever is necessary to get them back to what you want? I'd come to that conclusion already, but I didn't expect for you to freely admit it.

Funny, when I spoke with him, I simply saw a boy who was confused and upset at being insulted and attacked for something beyond his control.