So, even if we wanted to, we'd be unable to change how the future plays out? I guess I can see where you're coming from, now that you mention it...but it's sort of depressing to think about, too. I wonder if that's

Well, I'd feel awful if something happened to them! I don't think I could ever forgive myself. I still haven't I have to keep them safe somehow, there's no question about that. But I don't know telling them flat-out I'm their kid would be the best idea, either. Would they even believe me?

Either way, I guess keeping my distance won't necessarily be doing myself any favors.

Thanks for helping me put that into perspective a little bit.