I'm sure you have problems of your own. There's no reason that you should take on mine.
But it is not that I do not want your help (there is little about you I do not want), I simply feel that I should not need your help. It would hardly reflect well upon me to rely on others for solutions to my troubles... that sounds like

someone else.

Do not worry yourself, I'm sure I will find an answer, one way or another.